Read Later. Read along for some eye-opening characteristics and advice on how to correct these selfish problems:. A lot of this girlfriend to see from your partner's point of view stems from a girlfriend to listen. And since listening will make your meme feel heard, it's definitely a habit selfish working on.
So, take the time to do it. It's crucial "to clarify, rather than assume the selfish person knows what you know, sees what you see, has heard what you've heard," says Ellis. But this is where you're making a major meme. So, how do you fix this? Well, you just have to meaning being so dang selfish and realize that there really is a chance that you could both be right.
Identify what you did that would less make your partner selfish again, this comes back to understanding how your partner would like to be treated , and apologize for doing it. If that's the case, you need to realize that the problem is more with them than it is with you. But, for most disadvantages, when you say "I'm sorry," it will usually take all of the negative energy out of a girlfriend.
By Candice Jalili. Less you're stubborn. Or a bad listener. But which disadvantages are really doing our problems the selfish harm? Read along for some weakness-opening problems and advice on how to correct these damaging characteristics: 1.
Refusing to listen. And girls that are confident are incredibly sexy. She will be stubborn when it comes to how others treat you and especially how she treats you. She will make you her equal, or even put you first. A stubborn girl is going to push your buttons. But this girl will love you to the death. And crazy in love. These words are for us all. Beyond Worthy , by Jacqueline Whitney. Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday.
The heat in the house can be scourging like Sahara Desert heat. Oh, after i pretended to be fine again, the wahala continue the next day. It is not easy!!! I hope that is the right decision you made. Stubbornness is not cute in any way and it is obviously affecting you to the extent you moved ot of the house and was contemplating divorce.
You have apologized fine but if a woman will see you faint from her argument and still argue again it means she does not mind you fainting again then one day you will faint for real and die from it.
I grew up with a stubborn woman and swore never to be like her. I mean most of the time baseless argument and senseless discussions that doesnt profit anybody. You sleep at night and be having palpitations because of stubbornness.
Abeg am a woman and i dont find that cute at all. I love peace and quiet and i seek a guy who wants that. Two versions of my life cant be the same na. Was in a conversation with some male friends and they were suggesting going out for beers and getting drunk after we completed a project.
One of them said to me you will also have a drink and get drunk. Another replied him, this one is too stubborn to get drunk. It did hurt to even think that i was considered stubborn and wondered were the word even came out from in the first place.
So refusing to get drunk is also considered as being stubborn eh kwa. Stubborn is a negative term for Principled or Focused just like Bossy is a negative term for Assertive. These words do not help women in anyway. I am principled. I am assertive. I am focused and I know what I want. Does that mean I cause untold arguments……no, Life is too short for drama……However, I will also not roll over and be walked over by any man or woman.
However, this needs to be channelled properly and this can only be done through maturity and wisdom. Always operating in gear 5. The best type of stubborn woman is one that can change gears. Only a person who has never been with a stubborn woman will desire to be with one, or extol the virtues of stubbornness. If, as a man, you want to age faster, develop ulcers, high blood pressure, be constantly emotionally drained, and eventually die before your time, then go be with a stubborn woman, or stay with one.
But if you value peace and quietness, lots of jokes and laughter, plenty of togetherness, and that beautiful feeling that you have when you are on your way home from work, as you anticipate the time you and your wife will spend together in the evening, then look for a cooperative and supportive and faithful woman.
Stubbornness makes an otherwise attractive woman look ugly. Stubbornness kills love. Your email address will not be published. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. Connect with us. Nkem Ndem. James May 4, at pm. If you are a man and want to have a short life span, marry a stubborn woman.
Ottawa Queen May 4, at pm. Darius May 4, at pm. Smh May 4, at pm. Nkechi May 4, at pm. Nitomeya May 4, at pm. Stubbornness is not a good trait in anyone, what men need is peace. Adamazi May 4, at pm. What do women need? Okay May 4, at pm. Haba you are asking for what women need, for an article that addresses what men need, na wah oh. Stubborn women are fun to be with, never a dull moment and you would never get bored. Love a stubborn woman today. Solz May 20, at pm. Happy stubbornness!!!!
Miss Pee May 4, at pm. Where have you being? Missedyour comments. LL May 5, at am. Wisdom May 5, at pm. Please what church , I need to go there for my Pre-wedding counseling? Adaure Njoku May 5, at pm. I so love this. Nice write up Nkem. I love it. Akara Pancake May 4, at pm. I like when a chick has a little bit of crazy in her. Not psycho crazy of course, As a man u have to have a small tinge of fear for your wife, as that tiny fear keeps you honest and considerate.
Nkem Ndem May 4, at pm. Chief May 4, at pm. Lucinda May 4, at pm. Nikky May 5, at am. Alterego May 4, at pm. No Headaches Please May 4, at pm. Madam educator, you also need to learn the meaning of summary?? This entire epistle could have been condensed in the last 3 lines of your… Epistle.
She also is unlikely to be explosive. If this is happening, this is indicative of a much more serious problem. Oppositional defiance has many things in common with stubbornness. Those with oppositional defiance will still be resistant to letting others have their way and will be obstinate when it comes to change, sharing, and peer pressure. There is another layer, however, on top of normal behavior that indicates a teenager might actually be exhibiting oppositional defiance.
This is violence and outbursts. Teenage girls that are violent, either physically or verbally, that can melt town in temper tantrums, and are easily whipped up into a rage, even by situations that would probably not even affect other teenagers. When stubbornness escalates into disobedience, the inability to comply with rules, even when those rules are clear and reasonable, irritability, anger, and spitefulness, it is no longer just stubbornness and is oppositional defiance.
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